How it Works

  • Shelves filled with books

    2631 Books

    My mom left behind a collection of 2631 books when she passed away. Rather than donate them to a library or used bookstore, I want them to be found by people who share her curiosity and interests.

  • Hundreds of Postcards

    Her friends collected postcards for her whenever they traveled, and so she amassed a huge collection of blank postcards. I have self-addressed and stamped each of the postcards, and have inserted one into each of her books.

  • A Little Free Library full of books

    Little Free Libraries

    Books and postcards are being distributed through Little Free Libraries across the country, and I will be sharing the stories from the postcards that are returned here and on social media! Follow along the blog, Instagram and TikTok.

My mom reading to me (at age 2-3) from The Real Mother Goose”.

Making meaning from grief

My mom loved to read.

That actually feels like an understatement. She LIVED to read. Our house was full of books - in addition to their dedicated shelves, books lined our staircases, presenting a tripping hazard. She read aloud to me every night as a child, and continued to do so even when I was an adult.

My mom was a collector of all sorts of things - fossils and rocks, jewelry and clothing, and curious oddities like busts of the great composers and small replicas of architectural buildings. She saved her journals from when she was 17 until she was about 65. She saved every letter that anyone ever wrote her and every postcard that anyone ever sent her. Her friends would collect extra blank postcards from their travels and bring them back to her. In this way, she was able to travel the world.

When she passed away, I was immediately overwhelmed with the volume of tasks that accompany closing her estate and having to dismantle her carefully curated life. The house was full of 2,631 books (yes, I counted), and I knew that the collection would probably overwhelm any used bookstore or library donation program. I also knew that they wouldn’t fit in my apartment in Seattle (I have my own impressive collection) and that our taste in reading was so different that I could never truly appreciate them.

A few hours after the particularly emotional task of re-homing her cat Lucy, I had a stroke of inspiration:

What if I distributed her books through Little Free Libraries? And what if I added a blank, self-addressed, and stamped postcard from her collection to each book, along with an invitation to write back to me?

I’m working on the hypothesis that people who appreciate finding great books in Little Free Libraries are also the kind of people who, if asked, will take a few minutes to send a note back explaining why they selected that particular book. My mom’s interests were so wide and varied that I am deeply curious about the person who will select one of her five books about lobsters or one of her many books about adventuring to the North and South Poles.

This is a project born of grief and a desire to honor my mom’s love of books, written correspondence, and an effort to create meaning from the tragic experience of losing my wonderful mom - my greatest champion.

About the Project Name…

It’s worth mentioning that my mom would hate that I am calling this project “Betsy’s Books”.

While she was known as Betsy for the first 2/3rds of her life, she switched to “Elizabeth” when she was working at a preschool with another teacher named Bets(e)y.

From that point on, she went by “Elizabeth” personally and professionally, and rarely revealed her nickname to her newer friends or acquaintances.

I assume she would at least appreciate the alliteration.